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Red flags

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What are some things that you personally see as red flags and make you take a step back and reconsider things before/during dating someone?

deletedover 8 years
It's not shallow to have preferences on things outside of personality
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izzy says


harodihg says

Having a lot of tattoos or piercings is a red flag. Not that they're indicative of anything by themselves, but they could be signs of something bad.


depends on where they are/what they are. an arrow? hipster, but not bad. a tattoo of their ex's name? not a good sign. multiple ear piercings are fine, but a genital piercing.... not for me.


What about pearling.
Sincerely
over 8 years

vilden says

jesus i dont agree w/ sincerely on literally anything


i'd make a narcissistic comment as epicmafia has taught me to do in that situation except i'm totally, openly uneducated and outclassed in this specific "field"
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izzy says

also faking your own suicide on the internet is probably a pretty big red flag, but what do i know :^)


Agreed I would never date anyone who does that.
Becomeclear
over 8 years
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6vwNcNOTVzY
vilden
over 8 years
jesus i dont agree w/ sincerely on literally anything
deletedover 8 years
I use Tinder, what are you talking about Sincerely?
Sincerely
over 8 years

harodihg says

What about if they use Tinder?


this is not me saying dating sites are cool (I wouldn't know) but what about you just judge them on their personality instead of these shallow individual traits you're coming up with?

edit: fixed bc togepi's probably right-er
Togepi
over 8 years
Using social apps for dating shouldn't be considered weird tbh.
deletedover 8 years
My biggest red flag is anyone who posts in this thread, including myself.
jack
over 8 years

harodihg says

What about if they use Tinder?


tell every girl on tinder that they're weird for using tinder
Sincerely
over 8 years

annajane says


harodihg says

Having a lot of tattoos or piercings is a red flag. Not that they're indicative of anything by themselves, but they could be signs of something bad.


ignorant


if the stereotype exists then playing to it is a possibility, and I wouldn't necessarily consider it ignorant to avoid that particular stereotype, but that obviously doesn't always apply which harodihg ought to (and probably does) know
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What about if they use Tinder?
Togepi
over 8 years

harodihg says


Togepi says


harodihg says

What do you guys think of d*ck piercings?


It could get stuck. :(


h-hawt...


What a freak.
vilden
over 8 years
unless it's harodihg then it getting stuck is prob not going to happen
athena
over 8 years

harodihg says

Having a lot of tattoos or piercings is a red flag. Not that they're indicative of anything by themselves, but they could be signs of something bad.


ignorant
deletedover 8 years

Togepi says


harodihg says

What do you guys think of d*ck piercings?


It could get stuck. :(


h-hawt...
Togepi
over 8 years

harodihg says

What do you guys think of d*ck piercings?


It could get stuck. :(
Togepi
over 8 years

Sincerely says


Retti says


Togepi says

Is Retti.


my hands are clean


is that code for "I've never actually dated before"?


O.O
jack
over 8 years

harodihg says

What do you guys think of d*ck piercings?


HOW IS THAT A THING
Sincerely
over 8 years

Retti says


Togepi says

Is Retti.


my hands are clean


is that code for "I've never actually dated before"?
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What do you guys think of d*ck piercings?
jack
over 8 years

harodihg says

Having a lot of tattoos or piercings is a red flag. Not that they're indicative of anything by themselves, but they could be signs of something bad.


definitely a personal preference thing, though they would be red flags for me
deletedover 8 years

harodihg says

Having a lot of tattoos or piercings is a red flag. Not that they're indicative of anything by themselves, but they could be signs of something bad.


depends on where they are/what they are. an arrow? hipster, but not bad. a tattoo of their ex's name? not a good sign. multiple ear piercings are fine, but a genital piercing.... not for me.
Togepi
over 8 years

harodihg says


Togepi says

If the sex is not good.


Josie f*cks on the first date


No I need at least 3 dinners.