i get why you want to talk more about what's causing depression today but when it's there for whatever reason it doesn't do anyone good to disregard it
people make choices which lead to depression and suicide but you could say that about anything that happens to anyone. you could say that being a moron is a choice but the choices some people would have to make to get over their predispositions to being a moron are incredibly unlikely to happen. we don't live in a world where anyone can choose what they're going to be. when you try to make it that by saying things like your gender is a choice or being depressed is a choice you're only gonna make more people depressed because you're putting them in a deluded world that's hard to adjust out of. encourage depressed people to get treatment. when you tell them parts of their mindset which are ingrained into them are a switch they can turn off you get more people committing suicide because they don't really believe that they can get advice or medication from someone who might know what they're talking about