Pinche says

Quit your bit'chin and allow him to absorb the flaming and change the way he acts.

I think you should do the same with this thread

I don't even disagree with Bonk. Many of you just chose to use this as an opportunity to go after me in relation to other grievances. I.e Tucker Dean (lmfao) and HC (not publicly but in other Skype chats I was sent logs of lol). My visceral reaction to a disgusting choice by someone is not indicative of anything other than a visceral reaction to something atrocious. Shame on me for personal attacks, but shame on you all for your hypocrisy in rebuttal.

I did nothing close to a vio. This kid did something mad terrible so I let him know he's fu'cking awful and that's that. Quit your bit'chin and allow him to absorb the flaming and change the way he acts.

Good for you. I was extremely upset by it and you can't tell me that I can't be. Everyone handles death differently.

chill the f*ck out guys, I have a really good friend who died from car accident 2 months ago. I also have another friend who killed himself 4 years ago. What serp did did NOT upset me or me off, I actually didnt give a f*ck about what he did. You guys should too. I actually find the whole flaming on serp stupid and childish.

Jeff is just knocking some sense into the kid chill the f*ck out guys.

I don't think he needs a thread pretty much degrading him to know what he did was wrong. We're all entitled to our own opinions which I think we can all respect: personally, I think it's pretty clear by now that he knows what he did was wrong. I don't condone it at all, and it's a rather upsetting situation, but I think there are a lot better ways to go about it than most of the people posting on this thread are doing.

I don't think anybody is suggesting we just put this behind us, but really, at the end of the day, what exactly is this going to accomplish? Serp reading this and suddenly seeing the light? I'd like to think this is in the heat of the moment because seeing some of the things said on this thread really make me wonder who actually needs help here.

I believe it is best that we allow some time to go through as at this point, he should already know what he did was extremely wrong and go from there. All this is going to do, if anything, is actually give a reason for the real deal to take place. So please, I know we have our opinions- some good, some bad- but it would be really appreciated if we all just accept this for what it is, potentially keep our inner thoughts to ourselves, and try to move on from this unfortunate situation.

JohnBatman says

Honestly, what I think is the entire solution to this argument is Battle Snakes.

Jeff vs. Bonk

If Jeff wins, this thread is warranted. If Bonk wins, Jeff gets a vio.

I personally dont think Jeff deserves to get a vio even though I don't like him and don't agree with him making this post.

Honestly, what I think is the entire solution to this argument is Battle Snakes.

Jeff vs. Bonk

If Jeff wins, this thread is warranted. If Bonk wins, Jeff gets a vio.

I'm not saying anyone should forgive and forget.

I've lost two people that were close to me and had one of them survive the initial impact and stay at my house for a short stint before emergency rescue vehicles could come take him to the hospital.

You all should look at this from a more progressive standpoint of, "okay, this bad thing happened, what would we prefer the outcome be in the future?"

And I think the obvious points to make would be:

1) he understands why this was sh'itty and never does anything like this again

2) he isn't permanently hurt/haunted from having to deal with the backlash of this

No matter how badly you view what he did or how upset you are please just bear in mind that you're taking your emotions out on a 19 year old boy who made a very dumb mistake. Everyone deserves some leniency and we all make mistakes from time to time. I know that he's going to receive some sh'it here and there, and maybe that's a good thing to help ingrain in him how bad it was, but just don't lose sight of the fact that he probably really love this site and right now he probably doesn't feel comfortable on it, and that makes me a bit sad because I think he's a nice guy who simply f'ucked up.

y'all saying to forgive and forget because you haven't had to deal with losing a close friend or relative in a car accident before. y'all have no idea how much it hurts to lose someone to something like that, and it's ignorant as f*ck to ask anyone who has lost someone in that way to basically move on and forget about what jacob did. f*ck april fools or whatever sh*tty excuse he made for his behaviour - death isn't something to joke about.

lost any respect that i had for jacob as a person, but i still pray that he gets whatever help it is that he needs cause there's something definitely not right.

LOL

idt its evil necessarily its just some dude who wanted attention on the internet so he decided to drive drunk and died

I get that it's his own personal mental issues that came to be the reason for this spiral but it takes a sort of evil in someone to let it play out and not stop it when people are showing broken hearts. That moves past a broken mental state, that is cruel. That is something underlying that should be addressed and if being crass is the way to get it helped, then so be it.

Nowhere else on the planet will you see a bunch of people completely flaming someone for giving WELL DESERVED sh'it to a person who faked their death and sat and watched mercilessly as people poured out their hearts in condolences to them. It's disgusting and you people need to realize that there's a difference between forgiving someone and not condoning their actions and completely letting them off the hook. What he did was awful and terrible. I, as many others here, have had to refuse the life changing awful news that an immediate family member has passed. It's not something you should be able to do so easily and be forgiven for like this. This is dealing with something so much deeper. I get that being rude about it is not the best thing to do but all you moderators, especially you HardCarry, thinking anything I said is worthy of a report and a vivor lobby ban, is just ludicrous. Nothing I said crossed any line that wasn't LEAPED over by Sir. Disgusting.

Serpinator/SirPerior/Jacob/whatever:

You're a disgusting filthy spineless degrading human being and any, and all respect I've had for you has gone down the sh*tter. Promptly go f*ck yourself.

deandean says

There are different ways to handle this. Instead of being a about it, randomly attacking his asexuality, just be humorous about it.

He did a really really really really really *really* *really* dumb thing, but tbh who cares. Just making a thread to be hurtful is different than being humorous about. Just don't be hurtful.

was this post supposed to be a humoris post

thelastchromosome says

instead of laughing on you

I don't laugh on people. I tend to laugh in them.

rest in peace SirPerior.

RIP SirPerior, we will never forget you. You're in our hearts always.

looking forward to the next time you sh*t on Your Community sir palmetto

keep up the good work

great job sir pamalo

We aren't his parents, we're a community. We don't just go and shame people when they make mistakes. We aren't gonna raise him, but we shouldn't treat people terribly for their really dumb mistakes

hes not a moron what he needs is more positive reinforcement for this kind of behavior you guys are gonna be great parents