the spark far outweighs the distance, but only for the short term. eventually the long distance factor will be a larger obstacle than you may have anticipated/be able to handle, depends on the situation. if you know you can close the distance, then go for it. if you don't know, well then maybe it should be further reevaluated.
the closer one, with 'less attractive' qualities than the other, are those qualities still good? like say, a 7 being less than a 9
ok this is gonna be dumb because it's so obvious but if you're gonna do long distance then physical attraction should not even have to factor in cuz your relationship is personality and communication based
well, then i add on to my post, make sure they genuinely smile and are happy to be with you. nothing is better than kissing someone and you look at them and you both can't stop smiling. it's sad it took me 23 years to reach this point but tonight deadas's taught me how attraction is, yes, important, but there's this.... vibe??? you get with someone and they can just make you happy and then suddenly they seem way cuter to you and ???? it's omg ya just like smile and laugh and it's worth it imo
i personally don't have a problem with long distance but my only 2 exes have before. My only problem in getting involved with something like that is having to carry the relationship on my B A CK
so i'm gonna say pursue the further away one if that's the one who makes you happy and do that cute lil side smile where you look away and laugh and :)))) sorry it was a great night im HAPPY
i think you should go for the person who makes you genuinely smile. i noticed that tonight. i was with this guy who was super cute but like he didn't make me happy, and then tonight i met a guy who made me just genuinely smile and i was giddy and happy around them and that's when i released the point of love is to be happy and if you're genuinely happy and can't stop smiling and laughing with them, they're the best option.
@ anyone that reads this thread: Do you think I should go for a person that's very attractive and a personality I really like but they live 70 miles away or pursue someone that is less attractive in both of the other ways but lives a lot closer?
When guys ask the icebreaker question like: "What would the 3 things be that you bring with you on a deserted island?" I always give methods to kill myself.
