i'd say this thread was a success but i kinda feel like, like most times i do an ama/opinion, im kinda a dry fruit or whatever so i hope this wasnt too dry
i feel like my life perspective turned around at some point when i finally learned/accepted that bad things in my life will happen regardless of whether i let them upset me, therefore getting upset is generally a fruitless experience whereas solving problems is not
thats a very well-adjusted perspective
it's a double edged sword because it can be very daunting to see someone with an emotional problem and the only advice i have is "dont worry about it"
i.e. my friend was fretting over a girl he liked for 2 weeks straight