hmm Ok well I can't invite you to the family for some weird reason, but do you want to join? You won't be in the "member" coluimn but your avi will be in the family avatar and you will be a member.
legit cheating? You've got to be kidding me if you really believe that. Stop rationalizing your actions. Any form of cheating ruins the fun and spirit of the game.
Awww, are you sure man? I really like you, and I wish you would play more. Trolls come and go. I haven't seen any in a while actually (unless you play in Sandbox obv).