does something that I am justifiably angry about, she gets even more angry at me for getting angry. I hate that "for the sake of the kids" and appearances I am doomed to remain in this hopeless, quicksand-like situation until I am blessed by death. I hate that I cannot force her to live with someone exactly like herself so that she can experience the hell she bestows upon me. I just hate it all.
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Every attempt at discussion is viewed as an attack and is fought blindly and without logic or reason. I hate that she is uninterested in sex and that she thinks that foreplay is "manipulation", and that she tells me that "sex starts in the kitchen" even though the good things I do...well, see above. I hate that when she
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I hate my wife with an intensity that would blind the sun. I hate that in our almost 30 years of marriage she has never trusted me (and still doesn't) even though I've never, ever given her a reason not to. I hate that she's totally non interested in any kind of self examination or analysis. I fiercely hate that she ignores the 9 good things I do (or attempt) and focuses like a lazer on the 1 thing I do wrong - and that's the thing she stores in her memory. I hate that since the good things are ignored or forgotten it's like they never existed and that the bad things are nurtured and stored up and saved until they become what define me. I hate her rabid defensiveness.
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