agreed with dahlia but also if it does still feel weird i'm sure it's mutual and instead of letting it get to you you should focus on what uni is actually for which is your future and career, just pretend she's not there and if you must interact it's probably going to be easy to be neutral
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If you break up, a year should be long enough to get to a level where you can be around her without feeling awkward. I wouldn't worry about the future that much right now
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"break" is code word for "im bonking other guys with bigger dinks than you and i wanna see if theyll be in a relationship with me but if they dont ur my fallback plan"
She is coming to my university next year and it makes me want to die
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it might be hard but you really have to give her the time to realize what its like without you in her life. Hopefully she makes the right decision when she realizes what she's missing
it sounds more like she's creating something out of nothing and she may just be hiding the actual reason that she's wanting a break at all. i think breaks are silly too, i don't think its fair to basically claim someone without having them as yours specifically. you deserve someone who will proudly always want you around
i'm with rose on this. i think giving her a small fraction of time (a week is good) to let her analyze how a break feels differently to her, and then hitting her with an ultimatum is a smart move
i don't think that being different is an issue at all, i think she's looking into things way too seriously. ppl say opposites attract and it's obv said for a reason, in the end i think it creates a decent balance. also "time for a relationship"? how do lawyers and doctors manage to have relationships lol it sounds more like she's magnifying smaller issues and making them larger ones. u should deffo give an ultimatum sometime soon
We're basically in the "not dating, but not single" stage.
She's busy with a lot of stuff right now and it might be that way for a while, so she doesn't know if she has time for a relationship. On top of that, she thinks we're a little different, which I agree with. The only thing is that we both knew we were different, but I thought of it as "she completes the parts of me that are missing."
I don't know my chest hurts really bad and this has never happened before. This basically came up out of nowhere.
I decided that this "break" is going to last a week tops before I text her an all-or-nothing proposal.
